Having a hemorrhoid

I have a hemorrhoid since I was young.Some of my family members have it too,my father and some of my aunties and uncles.My father told me that maybe we got it from eating a lot of chillies.I really do not know if it is true.My father underwent a surgery to take out out his hemorrhoid coz it's really hard for him to sit down,had some blood spots on his pants and it was really painful.Thankfully,after the surgery,he got the hemorrhoid pain relief he wished.

I notice that everytime I eat some spicy foods or some chillies,my hemorrhoid gets sensitive,feel some discomforts and pain.I already talked about this to my gynecologist.She told me that it's up to me if I want to take it out or use a hemorrhoid relief treament.I did the latter.